COLUMN: Amanda Martin MP - Talking about men and boys can sometimes feel like walking into a political minefield

Talking about men and boys can sometimes feel like walking into a political minefield. Too often, it becomes a debate about division rather than a conversation about solutions. But here in Portsmouth, the challenges facing many men and boys are real and they deserve our attention.

Across Portsmouth there are dads working hard to provide for their families, young men trying to find their place in the world and boys who deserve every opportunity to fulfil their potential. They have strengths, talents and ambitions but many also face challenges that we can’t afford to ignore.

That’s why I’ve spent the last few months helping to establish the Labour Men & Boys Group in Parliament. The aim is simple to ensure the experiences of men and boys are part of the conversation about building a fairer, stronger country.

The issues are significant. Suicide remains the leading cause of death for men under 50. Boys continue to lag behind girls at every stage of education. Too many young men feel disconnected from good jobs and clear opportunities and in an age of social media, many are being exposed to online influencers who offer a distorted view of what it means to be a man.

These aren’t abstract political debates. They affect families in Portsmouth every day.

One area where change is badly needed is paternity leave. At present many working fathers simply can’t afford to take the time they want with a new baby. Those first weeks matter for fathers, for mothers and for children. No parent should be forced to choose between being there for their family and paying the bills.

I’m pleased that the Government is taking action through its new Men’s Health Strategy and by investing in skills, jobs and opportunities. But there is more to do.

We need a positive vision for men and boys one rooted not in division or grievance but in responsibility, contribution and community. The vast majority of men already live those values every day. They work hard, care for loved ones, volunteer, coach sports teams, support neighbours and play their part in making Portsmouth the city we are proud to call home.

Supporting men and boys doesn’t come at anyone else’s expense. Stronger fathers, healthier men and of all ages and more confident young people benefit all of us. Families are stronger, communities are more connected and opportunities are shared more widely.

That’s a conversation worth having and one I’ll continue to champion in Portsmouth.