Say ‘yes’ to new friendships at special taster events
Friendly society, Southampton District Branch Oddfellows is inviting local residents to a series of special taster events as part of its annual Friendship Month celebrations this September.
The local not-for-profit group, made up of around 800 members, mostly older adults, is appealing for people to push past any uncertainty or self-doubt, and to say ‘yes’ to giving their friendly group a try.
They are kicking off their festivities with an Afternoon Tea Party on 6 September, followed by a further two Afternoon Tea Parties later in the month.
Promising a warm welcome to any newcomers, Social Organiser for Southampton District Branch Oddfellows, Yvonne Kiley-Fuller, said: “Trying new activities inevitably puts us in situations where we might feel uncomfortable or a little out of place – but that’s all part of the experience. People who try us always leave saying they wish they hadn’t worried so much and they were pleased they came along.
“It’s easy to say ‘no’ to anything that challenges our regular habits. But these tasters have been specifically designed to put you at ease.
“Saying ‘yes’ to giving something new a try, especially a shared experience, has so many rewards, especially for wellbeing.
“Good company boosts your mood, builds your social confidence, and keeps your brain and body active. Plus, what often gets overlooked is that when you create a new circle of friends, you’re also creating a supportive network for when you might need a helping hand.”
Southampton District Branch Oddfellows has been celebrating Friendship Month since 2010, aiming to bring local people together through special taster events and to encourage the formation of new, supportive friendships.
On 6 September at 2pm, the group is inviting local residents to try its free Afternoon Tea Party at Sarisbury Green. Further events include two further free Afternoon Tea Parties on 20 September at Merryoak near Bitterne and 27 September at Totton.
The Oddfellows also runs around 60 online social events through Zoom each month which are free and open to the general public.
Dennis Gosling, from Hedge End, has been a member of Southampton District Branch Oddfellows for two years.
He said: “You have your routine, and that’s fine, but it’s important to break out of it from time to time – to try a new cafe, walk or to have a lovely conversation with someone outside of your family or regular friendships.
“You find out so many interesting things, and have stories to share afterwards. It lifts your spirits. You should never stop learning, or challenging yourself.
“If you’re nervous, don’t be. We’ve all been there and understand how nerve-wracking it can feel. Give the event host a call beforehand and then that’s one new friend you’ve made already!”
Southampton District Branch Oddfellows is one of 96 branches of the Oddfellows, which is one of the oldest and largest friendly societies in the UK.
The Society aims to improve its members’ lives through friendship and support. As well as its events, members can access a variety of benefits including care and welfare support and a travel club. There are also opportunities to take part in fundraising and volunteering initiatives.
To register an interest in attending one of Southampton District Branch Oddfellows’ Friendship Month taster events, or to find out more about the group and its activities, email [email protected], call Yvonne on 07949 917 215, or request a local info pack at www.friendshipmonth.com.